Dating
So I am in the middle. Half of my friends are married or almost and the other half are looking to settle down.
Here was the top 7 things I've learned while dating in NYC:
1. NYC is smaller than you thought. You never know who knows each other.
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2. You have standards but not an unbreakable list. Sometimes the person you least expect is the best person for you.
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3. Maybe it's you! Sometimes you could be the reason that you aren't in a relationship. Do you really want it?
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4. If it's meant to be, it will be. I believe that it is true, you shouldn't have to force a relationship. Do you force your other relationships?
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5. You need to be happy alone. How can you be happy with someone if you cannot be happy alone?
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6. You should continue living life. Do not go on a prowl just to find a mate. The best relationships happen while life is happening.
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7. And, lastly...have fun!
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